The Divine Paradoxes, Mindfulness as the Path of Freedom and Inner Change

The Divine Paradoxes There are common themes that almost always show up in my work with people. One of these common themes is what I call the Divine Paradoxes. There are two. Let me explain. The ways we learn to be effective in our outer lives often do not work well when addressing our inner Read the full article…


Relationship Advice

Most people have a certain idea about what is supposed to happen when you go to a therapist. We think that the therapist is going to get inside our heads, figure out what’s wrong, and give us advice on how to fix it. They come seeking relationship advice. Actually, many therapists and counselors work that Read the full article…


Sex at Dawn, a radical relationship awakening

Someone once asked me a riddle. What’s a morner? It’s a nooner, only sooner. I recently read the book “Sex at Dawn,” by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jetha. No, it’s not about morners, as one might infer. It is one of those rare, thought-provoking books that peels away the layers of belief, past programming, and Read the full article…


New Year’s Resolution

New Year’s Resolutions Failed? by Dr. Richard Jordan Ah, the New Year’s Resolution, evidence of the resilience of the human spirit…or at least our persistence. Every year most of us manage to burden ourselves with commitments to ourselves to improve something. Lose weight, get physical fit, stop smoking, fix a relationship, and make more money Read the full article…